Ok guys, figured Id give an update. Initially I figured id take the care to my buddies shop for the top bolt, but at about 3 am I had another idea. Here is what I did (in hopes it can help someone else in the future)
The problem was getting the ear on the starter to align with the hole in the trans...it was just barely off, so the bolt just couldnt get started. So I bought a 5/16-18 threaded rod, and cut it to about 9", and double nutted the end to create a way to turn it.
Then I loosened the 2 bolts on the starter so the starter could dlide back about 3/4" or so, and fished the 9" long threaded rod over the top of the starter, and through the ear on the starter. There was enough play with the lower bolts loose to move the starter around to get the threaded rod started in the upper hole, and I screwed it in using the jammed nuts on the end.
The rod now acted as a guide pin of sorts. I thightened up the the other 2 bolts, unscrewed the threaded rod, and now the upper bolt started right in. also, it became easier to use a 1/4" drive ratchet & extension, as it gave a little more room to wiggle around the block...
With the 3rd bolt in, (and tightened first), starter now works/sounds just fine!
Thanks for all of the help guys; I truly appreciate it. hopefully this can help someone else in the future!
Ron Grove
Wauconda, IL