You may have missed this information in previous threads, Stuey. The subject has come-up numerous times, but this is one of the more recent replies from Ted.
Ted Eaton wrote on 12/19/2013
The problem is not so much the heads and/or the gaskets but in the use of cast iron exhaust manifolds. Using gaskets in conjunction with the cast iron manifolds does speed up the frequency of broken or cracked manifolds. A thin film of hi-temp RTV in lieu of using any form of exhaust gasket seems to prolong the life of the manifolds.
With the exhaust manifolds being machined flat at the head mounting surface, then a thin film of RTV should suffice. For the same reasons the manifolds break when using gaskets with the iron heads, the manifolds will also break or crack when using them on aluminum heads with gaskets. Keep in mind that the exhaust manifolds for many of the as-delivered Ford engines did not use any form of exhaust gasket at the heads and simply relied on a good metal to metal fitment.
Again, this subject appears in multiple threads in the Forum 'SEARCH' archive. The message is consistent, gaskets used with cast iron exhaust manifolds result in heat transfer problems that invite breaks at the exhaust manifold to cylinder head attachment points.
Hope this helps.
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