There can be six wires coming out IF that mod has been done.
The plastic insert is taken out of the metal housing and two other contacts are added in the P position to allow it to start there.
The (6) would then be 2 for P start, 2 for Back up lights(R) and 2 for N start.
The new P start wires are then spliced into the existing Blue-Red wires to allow it to start in P.
Do you have connectors in the tail light wiring harness at the end that are not used?
Are there connectors in the harness or are your two extra wires from the R position on the switch connected to the Black-Red wires that go back to the tail lights? That is where the power should be coming from and will light the back up lights when the switch is in R and be passed back to the back up lights.
Tail light and License light wires are "probably" Black with no Red band.
Jim
Norfolk, VA

"MABLE"
1956 Thunderbird Green / Brown Interior (ZE-XG)

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1956 Mainline (FG-BE)