If the mark is 180 degrees off, then #1 is not at top dead center on compression. You can verify by removing the valve cover to ensure that #1 intake and exhaust valves have rocker clearance. If both don't, then you are not at tdc of compression. Turn the distributor 180 degrees and see if it starts.
Damper replacement is a pretty easy job. You need a puller, which should be available at your local parts store. You need an installer which may be available at your local parts store. You need to make sure that it has a 9/16 - 18 adapter to fit the Y crank and many installer sets do not have it. There are quite a few options for that but you may have to order it.
The other tool you need is a shop manual. Most questions can be answered by consulting the manual and there are pictures and trouble shooting procedures outlined, often better than people can do on a forum.
Lawrenceville, GA