CSPIDY. IF you were to dig through the Forum Archive, there has been a lot of back-and-forth at different points in time regarding the use of exhaust manifold gaskets on Ford y-block 239 - 312 series engines.
My understanding is that most, if not all, gasket makers have historically included exhaust manifold gaskets in their y-block rebuild sets. However, it has been pointed out that Ford did not use exhaust manifold gaskets on the y-block Fords when they were manufactured!
Discussion on the Forum has centered on ears breaking on y-block exhaust manifolds. Discussion has pointed at poor heat transfer OR uneven heat transfer between the cast iron cylinder heads and the cast iron exhaust manifolds. Cracking may be caused by
- the use of paper-like exhaust manifold gaskets resulting in uneven heating and expansion of the exhaust manifolds.
- improper torquing of exhaust manifold bolts OR exhaust manifold bolt torques CHANGING over time due to the heating and cooling cycle of the exhaust manifolds.
The use of a graphite based grease or something similar like Never-Seize has been recommended as a material that will serve to eliminate minor surface variations between the iron surfaces and eliminate potential exhaust leaks. Warped exhaust manifold mounting surfaces can be re-machined to eliminate exhaust leaks if necessary.
As Cliff reports, his years of Caterpillar experience have shown him success with the use of exhaust manifold gaskets coupled with Grade 8 fasteners (bolts AND flat washers). I don't know that Ford used anything special in their exhaust manifold hardware other than brass exhaust head pipe nuts. Grade 8 bolts AND flat washers may cure the reported changing of torque reading of exhaust manifold bolts AND the uneven heat transfer issue.

Like Sanddoc, in my experience I have had success with Never-Seez on all of my exhaust manifold bolts, header mounting studs, and metal to metal exhaust header to cylinder head mating surfaces.
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a.k.a. Charlie Brown
near Syracuse, New York